The loser’s lesson

 

                                  

In the glitz and glam of victory we often tend to swayed along the tides of glory and grandeur that it brings. The euphoria of win intoxicate the minds that too live in a hope to achieve the same zenith and in the magnanimous shadow of a win, the loser always lost its way into darkness. People want to hear the success stories, the efforts put into but no one makes any room for loser’s words assuming what possibly a loser can say or teach. Rather true lessons lie in the lives of a loser. It takes a lot of courage to accept defeat and put both feet back into the same battle with similar passion and hope to win again. A  true loser  is the one who neither despises the winner nor mean to disregards but aims to improvise and reinvent the required qualities to embrace the victory until then, sees no rest. A loser has a bigger heart to endure hard ships, face challenges, bear societal scrutiny and criticism. Loser is the one who fights many battles at the same time, a battle with fear, a battle with self-doubts, a battle with low confidence, a battle to confront world which is ready to gnaw away his left over strength, a battle to prove the worth of all the struggles. Amidst this chaotic bustle  a loser sustains, strives and focuses on achieving the target. A loser is one who fails many times but refuse to give up in the pursuit of winning. A winner can whine around the strategies to win but a loser can tell million of reasons for not winning and gazillion way out to reach atop as they have a better hands on hurdles that obstruct the path. A best loser is the one who gives the best fight against the strongest contender, against all the odds, against the tides of the time and at that  point the loser is no more a loser but the best of its the kind with hundreds of lessons and thousands tales to be told to those who are on the way between losing and winning.