The Relationships

 How intricated are these! Some with emotions, some with responsibilities, some with love, some with need, some with wants and some socially loathed. Is a life all about this or beyond this?

We born and get into the web of relations and live the rest of life serving to them or being slave to them. How much handicapped we find ourselves without one. If you are single you must marry, if married you must have a kid, a kid will be alone so to have a blood relation you need to have two kids and so on. Why are we always taught to live in a socially bound cage of wanted and non-wanted relationships? Some we enjoy though but many we carry the burden of, still we need to carry on because this we are expected, as a social norm is bound us to.   

Even if we chose to live a life of aloofness, we are again reminded to be with someone because it’s so incomplete. The meaning of life as taught by Vedas is to be Whole and whole never means to find the company of someone but to be whole within oneself. It becomes contradictory to the objective materialism we have created around us. This materialism has made us slave to the attachments of our never-ending desires of -to be happy, to love and to be loved, to accept and to be accepted. And we derive a kind of contentment from these relations which give meaning to our life and hence marking our existence in this objectified world. 


Comments

  1. Unknown11 January 2022 at 15:09

    Very well written

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  2. Unknown11 January 2022 at 15:10

    Absolutely True

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  3. Unknown11 January 2022 at 15:41

    Human entanglements perfectly put in words

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  4. Abhinav11 January 2022 at 17:52

    Thts deep.... emotions r bang on....many of the readers around will relate with it one way or the other...
    Straight from heart kind of write up

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  5. Unknown11 January 2022 at 21:40

    Life described ....beautifully,what deep thoughts!

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  6. Unknown12 January 2022 at 01:25

    Absolutely 👍

    Realtionships are imperative to enhance our emotional well being making our life stable .
    Having someone to count on and trust make you strong everyday 😊

    Eagerly wating for next blog 😀

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  7. Anuradha Narang12 January 2022 at 12:54

    Nicely written... relationships we are blessed with, are the lessons to be learnt for us in some way or another

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  8. Bikram Singh14 January 2022 at 08:53

    Beautiful articulation... Very well said.

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  9. Unknown21 January 2022 at 10:13

    Well written

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  10. Unknown21 January 2022 at 10:48

    Beautifully expressed in words

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  11. Unknown22 January 2022 at 18:58

    Well described about relations ... Keep it up

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  12. Nitin Gogna22 January 2022 at 20:09

    Right on the pulse and captured it effectively. Grateful that you initiated the topic

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  13. Unknown24 January 2022 at 11:24

    nicely penned! Detox, Detach and Depart

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  14. Reeta Rani24 January 2022 at 19:29

    absolutely right

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  15. Unknown25 January 2022 at 12:43

    Awesome and true!!

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  16. Priyanka31 January 2022 at 13:35

    So true
    described very well

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  17. Unknown31 January 2022 at 13:41

    Beautifully described

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  18. Unknown31 January 2022 at 13:45

    Beautifully scripted and nicely depicted the image of different relationships.

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  19. Unknown31 January 2022 at 14:04

    Very well said

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  20. Unknown31 January 2022 at 14:10

    Real truth of life described by you

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  21. Unknown31 January 2022 at 14:45

    Really very nice

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  22. Unknown31 January 2022 at 18:43

    so true

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  23. Unknown7 February 2022 at 20:35

    Absolutely 👍

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  24. Unknown15 February 2022 at 12:46

    Exactly, we can take initiative to break these stereotypes

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