On Marriage

 

Some marriages are to be celebrated, some to be consummated and others to be separated. Celebrated marriage are often an idealistic kind always dreamt of but rarely found. Such level of compatibility needs purity of emotions, simplicity in conversation, desire to understand and being understood. The spark of love must be lit in the darkest of gloom leaving no room for self-doubts and justifications. All form of marriages look forward to this idea of celebration though, yet difficult to achieve. Although the celebrations are well initiated with smiles, laughter giggles, tiny sparkling dreams but soon hit the grounds still we must have Faith in dreams.

Consummated marriages are more mechanized. The general purpose is to get laid and derive the maximum pleasure one can and ending with conceiving as the final product of the act or if not so, then mastering the various positions and sharing with close knit group so that they could also spice up their lives as well. Maximum population end up at making out loud and unloved. The experiment is all set to undergo the thrill it causes and satiates the hormonal turbulence caused by either infatuation, attraction or web infused hyped curiosity.

The third category shows the symptoms of separation at very early stages still the couples keep on lingering to save the social marital status. The procedure though start with lots of fun and excitement but the clouds of un satisfaction, misunderstandings, thought clashes soon shadow the relationship leading to frustration, anger, depression and anxiety. Some are able to cope up and fight the circumstances while others give up and drown in utter loneliness. When the situation become grievous and ir-repairable, ending at happily sad note is always the best option to go with. It is always better to choose good mental health over fake happy marital status.

Marriage is all about sharing the responsibilities that come along. It can be a celebration, consummation or ending up at separation. Choice is always with us. All we need is to re-define our attitude and understand our roles.